I digress...
No one wasted any time getting right in to the action last night. From the very first scene in the show, Chris was absolutely gushing over Whitney's qualities and how amazing she he. He then went on to say how slowly things were progressing with Becca and how unsure he was about her feelings for him.
The finale is usually tense and filled with questions and emotion. The girls get to spend time with the Bachelor's family and this never goes smoothly. There is always an over-protective mom, a crazy big sister or a brother who wants to show off his gun collection. Chris brought the girls back to Iowa which provided a major home court advantage for the Soules. They are friggin' awesome. Everyone not only adores, but completely trusts, Chris. They are protective but open and truly want what's best for Chris.
Whitney showed up for her visit with the Soules in the shortest shirt-dress I have every seen. It was snowing out and the girl had the nerve to come running out of that SUV in sheer tights! Not even leggings! She was very out going and a bit too in-your-face for initially meeting a group of people but, that being said, her ability to be open and sincere is what drew everyone to her. Watching Whitney interact with Chris' mom and sisters proved that she's a total girl's girl and can really roll with all of the Soules ladies. She was able to express how much she, not only loves Chris, but longs to be a part of a family again since losing her parents. Blending in was easy and natural for her.
Becca was at a huge disadvantage since Whitney had already won over the entire Soules family. They all knew that Chris was in a really different place with Becca and, if those Soule sistas had a few seconds with Chris Harrison, they probably would have arranged the proposal with Whitney themselves. You really can't compare Becca and Whitney. Becca brings completely different things to the table. She has a much calmer presence and puts people at ease by using humour. She had Chris' mom cracking up. She's light but also serious. She's more "simple" than Whitney but I think that's what Chris really liked about her. She has different sides to her where Whitney is peppy and "on" all the time. I don't think Whitney is at all fake but Chris saw more range in Becca's personality and got to experience a bit more with her.
Chris' mom was tough on Becca but in a really loving way. She clearly saw what Chris loved about her but needed to push a bit. I have mad respect for Becca being, perhaps the only girl in Bachelor history, so true to herself and not falling victim to Bachelor Fever. So many times, we've seen guys and girls get caught up in the glitz and glam and not be completely sure. Brooks got completely raked over the coals for leaving Des' season but thank goodness for Andi setting a new standard for the ladies when she dumped Juan Pablo (on his season!) but let's be serious...
Becca was so honest despite the pressure she must have been feeling from all directions. She's one strong chica and I love that she kept it real all season. She wasn't as open and willing to take a risk as Whitney was but she stayed incredibly strong and kept looking out for #1- herself.
When Chris went to visit Becca in her hotel, they sat down for a real talk and Chris asks "Why don't you feel like you're in love with me?" Ummm... Maybe because you've been dating 24 girls on a TV show for only a couple of months... I'm happy for Whitney that she's all in and will up and move and get married and have babies but, you can't blame Becca for questioning what she would even do in Arlington. I'm a firm believer that you have to be really solid with yourself before you can be solid in a relationship. It bothers me that Chris kept alluding to the fact that, if Becca doesn't fall in love with him, he'll have to pick Whitney. If he wants to be with Becca and is falling for her, he shouldn't have to default to another girl.
Chris brought Whitney to the farm and let her see a real day in the life. He's obviously an incredibly passionate guy but, as much pride as he has in what he does, there is still a lot of insecurity around his lifestyle. He seemed really nervous to show Whitney his house even though it's a great pad! Sure- it needs a bit of a woman's touch but it's a promising starting point. When I met my husband, his dining room table had one purpose- beer pong. The more time Whitney spent with Chris, the more sure she was that she wants this. She admitted she's scared and doesn't know exactly what she's getting herself into but, unlike Becca, she's willing to give it a shot and take the risk with an open heart.
It came time for the big day and Becca and Whitney got summoned to the Soules family barn where Chris "raised his very first pig". Touching. The barn was actually unreal gorgeous with chandeliers, stained glass windows and candles (fire hazard much?!).
Becca's outfit was total foreshadowing for how things would turn out for her- horrible. What was that, velour!? Who wore it best?! P-Diddy or Becca?
I know that pickings are probably slim at the consignment shop in Arlington but come on... Becca is drop-dead gorgeous (did you see her at after the final rose?!) and that dress did nothing for her. Anywhoo... That was probably one of the most shocking break-ups in Bachelor history simply because, although sad, Becca seemed relieved. She clearly felt very strongly for Chris and things probably would have worked out for them but they just ran out of time. Becca wasn't willing to "go there" so quickly and I think she was ready for the whole thing to be over one way or the other. No running make up, no ugly crying, not even a "Why doesn't he love me?!". All class, Becca.
As Whitney pulled up to the barn, she gasped "Holy cow". I will stifle my commentary... She was shaking like a leaf with nerves. Once she and Chris were together she couldn't shut up and wouldn't let the poor guy get a word in. She's probably gotten used to him "not being allowed" to tell her his feelings but, what Whitney doesn't know, is he's actually just incredibly inarticulate and out of touch with his feelings. I didn't foresee a ring box coming out of Chris' pocket. I thought Whitney would get the rose but he would ask her to give him some more time. What do I know though?!
Chris really couldn't lose with either one of these girls. Becca was a bigger risk but perhaps a greater reward as well?
After the Final Rose was tame and without tears. I would comment on the upcoming season of The Bachelorette but I can't even go there yet. Britt!? What?! Really?! Two Bachelorettes and the guys get to pick who they want to date?? Um... nope. I may, legit, never watch again. So brutal.
What are your thoughts on Chris and Whitney as well as on the new Bachelorette spin? Leave your comments below and don't forget to "Like" Midtown Diaries' Facebook page to stay up to date on all the news!
No comments:
Post a Comment