An Ode to the Neighbourhood Ruiner. You know who you are...

We all know one.  Maybe it was a tattletale sibling or a know-it-all in high school.  Perhaps you it was someone who lived down the hall in residence at university or a neighbour with nothing better to do.  You know who I'm talking about- the classic Ruiner.  Someone who, no matter what, has to ruin things for everyone else just because they are not able to do the same things as you.  If they can't listen to their music loudly after 11, neither can you.  If you have awesome friends who enjoy your company and want to hang out on a Saturday night but they are all alone and have no one to hang out with, they have have to complain at 8pm so no one can have fun. If you... well...  you get the picture.

When we were apartment hunting two summers ago, there was one thing on T's must-have list and that was a patio.  At the time, I didn't really care, but I must admit that it is great to have a little outdoor space or at least be able to throw the door open to get some fresh air.  Our patio is severely under-used already because of a certain neighbour who smokes CONSTANTLY and our patios make an L shape facing each other.  I mean CON...STANT.  It makes it hard to sit out in the evenings because we would literally just be sitting there looking at one another and, after living here for almost two years and not acknowledging the other person, I think we're past the point of striking up conversation.  Although we have been shushed a couple of times when we're outside late at night, Smoking Lady doesn't seem to be that big of a ruiner (her lungs may have a different opinion).  She puts up with poker nights, games nights, football Sundays and birthday celebrations without complaint.

One of the reasons we were excited about our patio was to be able to BBQ.  We asked our landlord about it and she said, as long as no one complains about the smoke, we are good to go.  We bought one of those table top grills and went to cooking.  Everything was great for a few weeks.  Then... you know it... we got a knock on our door from a RUINER.  Although she doesn't live that close to us, she noticed T was out BBQ'ing and wanted to come have a chat.  She didn't want to rustle any feathers but informed T that she had received a complaint about her BBQ.  T explained that we had checked with the landlord and she explained that she was no longer able to cook outside so we shouldn't be either.  What... a... ruiner.

Since then, I've been trying to come up with a really yummy burger on our electric skillet and, after two years or mixing, adding, tasting, hmmm'ing and haaaa'ing, I've done it!  The secret- keep the meat super simple and then make one or two really delicious toppings to enhance the flavour.

Here's what you'll need:
1 lb ground beef
1 egg (beaten)
1/4 cup of plain oatmeal
1/4 tsp of salt
1/2 tsp of ground pepper (or to taste)

Preheat electric skillet to 375 degrees.  Mix up all of the ingredients together in a bowl.  Form the mixture into 4-5 patties.  Toss the patties on the skillet for 4 minutes before flipping.  Try not to press them down or move them around.  4 minutes will put a good sear on the meat.  Flip the burgers and leave them for another 4-5 minutes.  If the meat isn't cooked all the way through, just keep them on a bit longer.  Try not to overcook the burgers as you will end up with a dense meatloaf patty instead of a juicy burger.  When patties are cooked through, through some grated Monterey Jack to melt.  I typically grill some onions while the burgers are cooking as it brings out the sweetness a bit more.  Toast buttered buns for 5 minutes on 350 degrees in the oven before serving.

Now for my new found favorite homemade topping- Garlic Aioli.  I searched online and stumbled upon this really simply but incredibly yummy recipe from All Recipes.com.  It went so well with the meat and gave the burgers a more restaurant/gourmet feel than the usual backyard style ketchup/mustard/mayonaise.

Thinly chop some lettuce and throw on a slice of tomato and you have yourself a delicious grown up style burger for the effort and cost of a quick weekday meal.  Enjoy!

Comments or suggestions?  I'd love to hear from you below or tweet me @darbyvt.

A timely inspiration and GRC Week 10: Salsa-Stuffed Muffin Meatloaf

When was the last time you were truly inspired by someone?  Have you sat across from someone lately who goes about their life and career with such passion and care that it just oozes out of them?

I've been off the wagon a bit over the past few weeks.  It's been difficult to be focused and to figure out what I need to be working toward in the not-to-distant future.  It may sound strange but I really look up to people who have their shit together.  Luckily, I don't know too many people my age who really have it all figured out but that's what your 20's are for right?!  That whole decade (or at least a good chunk) is a time to make mistakes, stay out too late, get day drunk, cry in public washrooms and just figure out where you fit.

Today I met for coffee with a woman who is the epitome of shit-togetherness.  A work colleague introduced us to chat about some potential professional development opportunities and I walked away feeling like a new person.  She has been in her profession for more years than I but she was so insightful and lovely to hang out with.  As cliche as it sounds, she really opened my eyes to the fact that I'm putting myself in a much smaller box than I should be.  I've started to believe that what I do now is simply what I should continue doing but that's not at all true.

So what's next?  I have no idea.  I was too captivated by my coffee date's loveliness and I forgot to beg her to tell me what to do now.  I'll start with picking up Life of Pi and see where that takes me.

As I head to the kitchen to make some dinner, I will leave you with this flavour (and protein!) filled Salsa-Stuffed Muffin Meatloaves from CBC's Best Recipes Ever.  I love this recipe because you could easily substitute the beef for any other ground meat or meat substitute.  Using salsa as a sauce instead of something with a lot of sugar is a great way to make a meal a bit healthier.  Pair it with some cooked carrots or green beans and you're set!

Please send along your comments, suggestions, recipes or life-changing moments in the comment section below or on Twitter @darbyvt

I think Taylor Swift was at my 23rd Birthday... My Favorite Things about February and GRC Week 8: Baked Grapefruit

Well, it's Justin Bieber's birthday which can only mean one thing...  February is oooova!!!  I am welcoming March with open arms.  Not only do the winter months turn me into a total hermit but the past month has been stacked with appointments, wires, bandages and overall gloom.  I'm certainly looking forward to longer days, better weather and (hopefully!) far fewer doctors.

February wasn't all bad though as I got to spend some time some time in the kitchen, organize some finances (am I the only one who likes doing taxes?!) and catch up on some books and music.

Here are a few of my favoriiiiiiiiiite thiiiiiiiiings from the past few weeks:

Favorite pre-made food item:  Organic Creamy Butternut Squash Soup by Imagine

This soup is just souper (get it?!).  It comes in an easy-to-pour carton (kind of like a giant juice box)
and is yummy yummy yummy.  I found it a bit bland my first couple of tries but I now add curry powder, ground nutmeg, fresh ground pepper and cinnamon when the soup is starting to get hot and that does the trick.  Most of their soups are also dairy free, gluten free and kosher!  I've only been able to find this brand at Metro but I'm sure the company would be more than happy to tell you where else they sell.  This soup is really thick and would be delicious to use as a sauce for veggies or proteins.  

Favorite album:  Red by Taylor Swift

Don't judge!!  Taylor Swift is friggin' awesome.  I don't care if you think her Grammy speeches are annoying or if you're still mad about the whole John Mayer break up.  This girl can write one heck of a song.  I've been weeping over this new album for the past two weeks.  If you don't love her Top 40 songs, take a listen to some of her other tunes because she's such a great storyteller.  I wish T-Swift hadn't have been in elementary school when I was starting high school or else I would have learned so much from her precautionary tales and probably begged my parents to send me to an all girls' school if those would have existed where I'm from.

Some of my favorite non-Top 40 tracks- "22", "Treacherous" and the real on-the-floor-in-fetal-position-crying-my-eyes-out-flashbacks-to-my-23rd-birthday kicker "The Moment I Knew" which is found on the bonus disc 2.  

Favorite Cosmetics product:  Conceal FX Camouflage Concealer by Cover FX 

Wait... what?!  A cosmetics product?!  I know, I know.  I'm certainly no beauty expert and my typical make up routine consists of eye liner, mascara and some powder.  But that's only if I'm going to a public place where sweat pants are not appropriate (obviously the grocery store and McD's are places I do not wear make up).  I asked the advice of my lovely and talented esthetician friend, Kendra on how to cover up some scar action.  She recommended the Conceal FX and it's awesome.  It not only completely hides my scars but it helps with general redness and dark under-eye circles.  They sell the Cover FX line at Shopper's which is super convenient.  The worst part?  I had to buy Xtra Light.  I need a vacation...

Favorite (healthy) snack:  Baked Grapefruit (GRC Week #7)
When I saw a friend's Instagram pic of a baked grapefruit, I was intrigued.  I've had baked apples and dried fruit but had never considered heating up the oven and popping a citrus fruit inside.  I hadn't had grapefruit since I was a little kid so I decided to give it a go.  Initially, after a quick google search, I topped the grapefruit with honey and cinnamon before baking.  I didn't love the consistency of the honey on the finished product.  After consulting with my friend, she told me she uses brown sugar.  Ding ding ding.  We have a wiiiiinnnnner.  Sprinkle a bit of brown sugar and cinnamon on this puppy. Put it in a 350 degree oven for 15 minutes and you've got yourself a tasty, refreshing and healthy treat.




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Is that a heart monitor or are you just happy to see me?! GRC Week 6- Cheesecake for Two

Well...  we did it!  We all survived another Valentine's Day.  I don't think it's as bad as most people do.  In fact, I spent my whole day yesterday feeling very loved without a single flower, corny card or box of chocolates.  And I'm happy about it!!  I think February 14th is a great excuse to reach out to friends and family and wish them a great day.  Sure sure...  I doooo have a significant other but we never make a big deal out of things.  We went for dinner after work and hung out for the evening at home.  No embarrassing at-work flower deliveries or PDA.  But now it's the 15th and we can all go back to texting at the table and putting on our sweats the minute we get in the door at night.

Speaking of hearts, I have this little gem strapped to me 24/7 for 14 days:

It's a very stylish and oh-so comfortable heart monitor that is (hopefully) the last step in clearing me for any kind of medical concern since my fainting incident a few weeks ago.  It's like having a light weight baby that you don't have to feed.  I'm getting pretty good at dressing to disguise it but running out of options for being in public.  I'm a bit of a cyborg.  T came up with the idea that, if I put the monitor on my back, I'll look like the people on reality TV with mic packs.  Truuuue...  I still have to wear a scarf when leaving the house to cover up the electrodes on both collar bones.  I don't know how T keeps his hands off me...  Did I mention that the vast majority of people are allergic to the jelly on the electrodes so I'll likely have massive red circular welts all over me for the next month??  Hot stuff coming through.


With all of my time hiding inside like the Hunchback of Notre Dame and love being in the air, I decided to try a dessert this week for the Great Recipe Challenge (Week 6).  I'm not a huge dessert lover but I wanted to give it a go for a special occasion.  I made Cheesecake for Two from the Weekend Gourmande.

I've been under the impression that cheesecake is really complicated and time consuming but this wasn't at all!  I purchased two pyrex oven-safe bowls (2 cups each) at the grocery store.  I added in chocolate chips after mixing everything together as the recipe suggests.  This was definitely more than enough for two people.  In fact, T and I split one and couldn't even finish it.  It could easily be divided into four smaller portions.  Great for impressing dinner guests!  I made the hearts on top by placing a small heart-shaped cookie cutter on top of the cooled cheesecakes then dusted cocoa powder through my tea infuser onto the cut-out.  So cute!  We give this a D&T stamp of approval with an 8/10.  It's not life changing cheesecake but it's really yummy and easy to make.  There are lots of variations with fruit toppings or lemon filling.

Have a great weekend and keep that love flowing!  Comment below or tweet me your suggestions or recipe ideas!  @darbyvt

I guess this is growing up! GRC Week 5

Maybe it's the getting-close-to-30 in me but has anyone else recently been slapped in the face with how much things can change in a matter of a year or two?  Granted, it's been almost seven years since I graduated university and almost five since I picked up and moved away from my university town but, lately, I've realized that my 23-year-old-self would be shocked and appalled to see my life now.  The strangest part- I'm completely ok with that!

I guess this is the feeling of being settled.  I've had a busy work week with a bit of travel and, although it's great to go away for a day or two and see friends in other cities, I always so look forward to coming home.  T and I used to celebrate everything by going out.  Payday Friday?  Payday Pizza!  Long day at work?  Let's go out to eat!  Thirsty?  We'll spend $75 at a pub down the street.  Lately, we've been able to enjoy being home a lot more.  Since I've been getting more into cooking and baking, I find it a lot of fun to go grocery shopping (big shout out to T for braving No Frills by himself on Saturday afternoon while I was at work), research recipes, read food blogs and spend time creating in the kitchen.  The weird thing?  Even meals I've been making for years have started to taste better.  It must be true that you can taste the love and passion that goes into making food.  

Since I was only home one night last week, we decided to have a date night in with dinner and hanging out.  Luckily, earlier in the week, our friend Meaghan had sent a NEW RECIPE!!! our way.  She and her bf (who happens to be T's bff) traveled to New Orleans last year (jealous!) and must have been missing that Southern flavour.  The GRC Week 5 recipe was Bourbon Street Chicken by Big Oven. 

Bourbon Street Chicken

I am all about one pan meals!  I liked making Bourbon Street Chicken because everything could be done in one large frying pan with very little mess and very few dishes afterwards.  A good weeknight meal.  You could even cook the chicken ahead of time then throw the sauce together with things in your fridge and pantry.  I added onions and peppers for a bit of flavour and color as well as a spoon full of chili sauce I had in the cupboard but followed the recipe exactly otherwise.  The end result was good!  I found it a bit saucy but next time I'll just put less sauce on my serving.  I've made similar-tasting stir-frys before.  This one just has a bit more of a ginger and spice kick to it.  We give it a 7/10 and would recommend it for a "what am I going to make tonight?  I have chicken and a bunch of things in the pantry" weeknight meal.  Thanks, Meaghan, for forwarding it our way :)

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A few of my favorite thiiiiiiings (and GRC Week 4)

Who says Oprah is the only one who can have a list of favorite things?  If "favorite things" has some sort of a copyright, please don't sue me Oprah or staff!!

Since the month is coming to a close, I wanted to share a few favorite things I've been smelling/using/eating/drinking/watching so that you can enjoy them too!

Favorite Candle:  Cinnamon Frosting by Bath & Body Works
Vanilla, cloves and buttermilk all melted together in a waxy ball of goodness.  I love love love BBW 3 wick candles as they last for so long and have really lovely scents that aren't too perfumey or over powering.

Cinnamon Frosting Candle by BBW

Favorite Shower Gel:  Sea Island Cotton by Bath & Body Works
I maaaaaayyyyyy have a total of 15 BBW shower gels in my linen closet right now.  I'm a wee bit particular with which scents correspond with which seasons.  One can't walk around smelling like a Japanese Cherry Blossom in October!!  For instance, I have one scent, Bali Mango, that I will only use during the summer and when I'm in the Caribbean for work or on vacation.  The gels are arranged by season in the closet.  The same is true for my 11 bottles of BBW hand soap.

Sea Island Cotton Shower Gel by BBW

I keep three scents in my shower at all times and I switch them out, whether they are empty or not, depending on the weather.  One is my going out gel which is always a scent I really love and don't want to use up too quickly.  The second is one I use if I have a a work event or some sort of social occasion and wanted to smell nice but not going-out-nice.  Then, the third, is more of an everyday just-around-the-house or got-back-from-the-gym soap that isn't anything too special but that I still really enjoy.  Sea Island Cotton is the perfect third soap because it smells like... well... soap!  It has a nice light scent and reminds me a bit of fresh clean laundry.  Mmmmmmm...

Favorite Tea:  Earl's Garden by David's Tea
If you like (or love) Earl Grey tea, you will like (or love) Earl's Garden.  I bought a bag for a friend one time and she loved it so she got me hooked on it.  I then got my mother hooked on it and I just recommended it to another friend this morning.  It has the coziness of Earl Grey but with hints of strawberries, raspberries and black currant.

Earl's Garden Tea by David's Tea

Favorite TV Personality:  Parker Schnabel from Gold Rush Alaska
Judge away but T and I spend our Sunday nights watching shows about gold mining.  Gold Rush Alaska followed by Bering Sea Gold followed by, our personal favorite, Jungle Gold.  Despite the fact that George and Scott on Jungle Gold are completely jacked badass hotties who run around Ghana putting armed men in chokeholds, Parker Schabel completely warms my heart.

Parker Schnabel from Gold Rush Alaska

He's this adorable teenage kid who works so hard to continue the gold mining legacy of his 93-year-old grandfather, John.  He's so sweet and I just love him.

Favorite Recipe:  No-Bake Energy Bites by Gimme Some Oven
You didn't think I'd end this without including my GRC Week 4 recipe did you?!  I never have difficulty finding good dinner ideas but I struggle with breakfast, lunch and snacks throughout the week.  This little nuggets are great to have in the fridge to grab whenever you need a boost.  They took about 30 seconds to throw together and will stay fresh in the fridge for about a week.  I used Banana Nut instant oatmeal by Quaker.

No-Bake Energy Bites by Gimme Some Oven

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